You know there is some irony in the fact you constantly disregard Russia's perceptions as irrelevant despite all the evidence of it being there long-standing position. Well expecting your view of how they should perceive things as the baseline for discussion on the subject.
Who exactly is "Russia" ? Lets be honest here - "Russia" is Putin. The Russian people have nothing to say in this matter as they have no power at this stage.
I am not ignoring Putins perceptions. The question is rather why Ukraine is important. If UKR was in NATO, but friendly to, or under de facto control (aka, Belarus), Putin wouldnt care. The question is not about NATO, it is about de facto control of UKR. Being in NATO makes it harder to control UKR, but not impossible.
Being in NATO does not in and of itself pose a threat to Russia. After all, RU was doing great trade with a whole host of NATO countries for a long time - no complaints from Putin. Putins own actions show his disregard of NATO. Again - UKR was not getting into NATO.
Truth is they don't see things they way you think they should and infact do see things the way they constantly say they do.
Who is "they" ? The RU populace has shown itself to be utterly apathetic. They have no voice here at this stage of war (this might change if a general mobilization was declared, which is why I dont think it will happen). This is about Putin. Putin is acting in his interest, not the interest of Russia. Can we all agree this war has been a bloody fiasco in the military, political and economic sense ? What rational actor would continue this charade. Even if UKR surrendered tomorrow, the damage to RU will continue to be immense.
Again this isn't about right or wrong it's about the why and ultimately how peace however that looks is going to be achieved. A refusal to accept the other side's arguments as relivent to the issue when they are clearly willing to go to war over the issue is about the worst idea I can think of for limiting the damage this war will cause.
Im not arguing right or wrong, Im arguing just because Putin declares something, doesnt make it true, and Putins actions are the more important indicator. Yes, Putin wants to keep UKR firmly as a RU puppet state. No, he doesnt fear NATO.
Obviously Russia considers NATO expansion a threat they went owar over this Germany had to prevent it along time ago knowing that fact.
Everyone in Europe is afraid of the RU war machine - or at least was, before the clown show started.
Also think about that again Germany had to shoot down Ukraine membership consideration, that is a major hole in your it was never going to happen theory.
You cant join NATO if you have an active conflict going. Period. Thanks to Putin, and the 8th Gds army elements he introduced into the LPR/DPR in 2014, we have the conflict needed to keep UKR out. Heck, even the RU occupation of Crimea (with no treaty) means UKR cant enter NATO.
Never gonna happen.
And no, given the fractured nature of Europe and the pro-RU elements), there was no way the NATO bylaws would be changed to allow UKR entry.
Even if you are right and it was some bluff for no practical reason intended to do I have no idea what... Clearly Russia wasn't going to take the risk it was just a bluff especially after the zelenski government implemented it's anti Russian policys. Because it's rational to think that after kicking Russians out of Ukraine they would next invite parties in that Russia would consider a threat perhaps the very parties they were currently talking about inviting in. The parties that themselves were talking about coming into Ukraine. Seriously man how do you not see that picture things as relivent to the war in Ukraine and vital to the conversation needed to ultimately bring peace back? Because your not going to get peace if you refuse to accept that the other side is fighting you for a valid reason just because you think they shouldnt care about that reason. I mean they went to war over it the truth is self evident here
At the end of the day what is Russia fighting for ? To repeatedly punch itself in the face with a tire iron ? UKR will _never_ be friendly to RU in my lifetime, barring massive political change in RU.
The die is cast, the fat lady is singing, the game is over - what can RU hope to achieve ? Nothing. But this isnt about RU, its about Putin.
UKR and NATO have already agreed to keep UKR out of NATO. If this is what Putin wants, why is the fighting continuing ?
Out of curiosity tho if you don't think NATO or NATO forces being in Ukraine is a issue.
NATO is a smokescreen, just like Nazis and biolabs and (now) "UKR bombed muh villa". All excuses.
Then how do you explain the refusal to make a peace deal that would formally prevent this from happing from being signed?
Sunk cost fallacy ? Putin doesnt want peace, he wants, at the very least to wreck UKR to such an extent that will take decades to rebuild, and be a drag on western economies.
There have been multiple attempts at this. Unfortunately the refusal to accept such proposals has lead to greater demands as it lead to war.... And do you think continued refusal to limit the military potential of Ukraine to that as basically being toothless is going to bring peace?
What military potential will UKR have after the war, to be able to threaten RU ? They will be too busy spending money trying to clear the rubble and rebuild to fuck with RU. The so called "limit" of 800K armed forces is a joke. UKR wont be able to afford such a standing army - probably ever. At the same time, RU trying to limit UKR to basically a police force is just Czechoslovakia 1938 all over again.
Not asking if it's right or wrong for Ukraine to have as many its own or whoever's forces it wants but the actual practical problom of should they? Because that ultimately is the fulcrum of decision that peace rests on imop. If you disagree with that then how do you think a practical peace deal should look. One that Russia would be willing to accept because obviously the have to agree or be forced to agree by means other then words at this point
Peace, if it happens soon, means UKR is going to lose territory it doesnt want to lose. Maybe the rest of the Donbas ? Neither sides maximalist demands can be met. Putin is likely going to have to accept that UKR will have a defense army, and he wont be able to control it like Belarus.
Then Putin dies of old age soon and then we shall see what happens. The average age of RU leader deaths in the 20th century is about 70 years. Tick-tock, tick-tock, the reaper is coming for him sooner than later.