Back to Iraq: The USA can learn from the British in the south how to win the "hearts and minds" of the people as a 1st step in ending a counter insurgency conflict. Typical American arrogance and ignorance is not going to help!
To say that the US doesn't know the first thing about how to win the hearts and minds is not a fair statement IMHO. One only need to visit what the US is doing in my island group in the Philippines: Mindanao.
The book
Imperial Grunts actually outlines how their efforts are making a difference on the island of Basilan -- home of the Al Qaeda's front in the Philippines. Here are paraphrased examples from the book.
-> US Special Forces conducted extensive, very detailed surveys, of the population. Identifying everything from religion to education. The also took the time to figure what people's main concerns were -- which turned out to be security. All other considerations were secondary. Therefore it became their primary object to make the people feel safe
-> Rules of engagement prohibited US forces from taking a direct part in efforts to apprehend Abu Sayaff terrorists. So they took a passive approach. Using information gained from the local population, they identified the general location of the terrorists home ground and established their base there. This meant that home was no longer home for the Abus, which meant they had to keep moving -- driving them into the gun sights of AFP troops.
-> Another thing the survey found was that large parts of the island, particularly the muslim-dominated areas, were largely undeveloped. Public services were non-existent. To hit multiple birds with one stone, US forces developed permanent, not temporary, support facilities for their camp: roads; water facilities; port facilities; etc. These were assets that they used while they were there -- but were also designed to remain functional long after they had left. This robbed the terrorists of one more tool with which to attract recruits: preceived government neglect.
Their efforts worked. The AFP has replicated this formula in other areas as well, and were just as effective. (Sigh, if only we could have done it earlier)
True, the situation in Iraq appears to be deteriorating, but you have to remember that the perpetrators of the violence may not really be Iraqis themselves. Its a bit hard to win the hearts and minds of extremists that are driven by hate.