I'm not suggesting the Arabs are blameless [far from it] but decades of flawed and selfish Western policy towards the region has contributed to the mess we have now. What were the circumstances that led to the rise of AQ and IS? Has the longstanding policy of unconditional support for Israel [at great cost to American interests], isolating and demonising Iran and supporting Arab regimes that were never even elected actually benefited the U.S? Trump went all out to ingratiate himself with the oil rich Arabs but was silent over Yemen where quite a number of civilians have been killed. Do the human rights and well being of Syrian civilians matter more than that of Yemeni citizens? Assad gets vilified [and rightfully so] when his planes hit civilians but the West remains largely silent over the plight of Yemeni civilians at the hands of the Royal Saudi Air Force.
Are we any closer to solving the Israeli/Palestinian dispute? By the U.S. taking sides in the Sunni/Shia Cold War; does it actually benefit the U.S. and contributes to stability or does it only makes things worst? Which offers more benefits in the long run : a U.S/Iran rapprochement [based on realpolitik and diplomacy rather than Iran making compromises without getting much in return] or the continued policy of branding Iran as being responsible for all that's wrong in the region? Does it benefit the U.S. for the Gulf Arabs to be dependent on U.S. support [the case for several decades now] or does the U.S. really want the Arabs to pursue an independent policy without being beholden to the West?
As long as the double standards and hypocrisy continue; the region will continue to be a big mess and the people who live there will continue to pay the price.
Of course double standards are used, that's politics. The invasion of Iraq in 2003 and the so called peaceful 'Arabian Spring', which are in fact a couple of bloody years.... We, the Western Civilized World, supported them, all to replace the evil regimes by the Good Guys. In the end these regimes (where indeed not the right examples for democracy) collapsed and replaced by several unstable weak governments caused by the power-vacuum. Iraq, Lybia, Egypt, Yemen, all ended up into chaotic unstable countries, all in the name of Freedom and Democracy.
But hey, thats not a problem ofcourse, because an unstable Middle-East means a lot of military equipment acquisitions.....:soldier
Many Middle-East countries dont have a democratic system, sometimes even a supressive human-rights violating system, but as long they are on the good side (pro-US), nothing will change.