China in turn, in recent times at least, has never open criticised Malaysia, the way it has Vietnam and the Philippines, for claiming and occupying reefs that China maintains are an ''indisputable'' part of China. Whether Malaysia's policy will pay off in the long run remains to be seen however.
Of course, the essence of the described situation is that if you don't take any action to lay claim to what China claims is theirs - whether or not you disagree and actually think its yours - then they won't criticize you.
Meanwhile China goes around building Islands out of nothing to stake out it's claims and expects everyone else to acquiesce.
What China denounces as aggressive in other countries seems to be SOP for them. It's as if they shout loudly enough that it's theirs, then that somehow makes it so.
Even allowing for a learning process, there should have come a point at which China recognised its true path to respect and greatness was to be an economic power and a positive force in the world; not the 200 lb bully grabbing territory from its neighbors in a way the WW2 should have put an end to.
If nothing more they could have learnt from the goodwill sapping mistakes the US made (more easily done for them since they don't have the vested interests to protect or having the bad guys target them just to create the enemy that justifies the bad guys acting dictatorially). But at least the US started with a store of credibility by being the good guy in two world wars (or at least the second one anyway) and usually have a modicum of good intention, even if sometimes misplaced or misjudged. China doesn't start with that credibility or show that good intention.
And while they build up the tension about the issue internally, they remind me of nothing more than the Argentinian junta before the Falklands. A government trying to keep all the balls in the air which needs an external threat to get everyone to look somewhere else.
I hate to be a worrier, but I just don't see how this plays out to a happy ending