Some logic is self-contradictory here: once an airplane loses its stealth feature before the enemy, it's not much different from a regular airplane to air defense fire. And how can it survive before it can drop the JDAM ? (if my proposed missile exists)
1) you assume 1st day of war scenarios where LO aircraft are travelling clean and only using internal weapons release.
assuming that the aircraft releases in high PK ranges, then it means that the enemy has literally seconds before weapons impact. The LO asset after release will not continue to fly dirty - it doesn't have to and it wouldn't. It's also not the only asset downtown when the fight is on.
you're also taking a platform centric view, which is not how war is conducted post 1982.
2) planes don't travel alone - they don't have to do so anymore. even in 1999 the VLO assets were part of a systems event where everything from LACM, SOF, shore bombardment and tactical bombing were run concurrently to assist the mission. In the case of the US that means that other tactical strike are in play, that the broader eprotection and esensor assets like Rivet, Compass etc are up - and it means that they're racetracking and tailgating satellites over the critical target areas. ie they don't go in asleep - and they update enroute.
Further, as far as I know, the phase array radar in ballistic missile defense is the kind of radar working around 300MHz, such as the radar in Aegis system. They are not too big in size if range requirement is not demanding.
again you're looking at platform centric scenarios, these assets (Aegis, AWACs, Rivet, Compass, F-22 and JSF etc ) are or will be co-operative battlespace managers which can run primary or hand off where approp. The planes can be passive all the way to the target if necessary as other assets provide a virtual radar picket capability, if not virtual sensor bubble. One asset does not provide sole sensor support. To do so hilights critical path issues, and thats not how things are planned or prosecuted.
the doctrine has evolved constantly ever since Bekaa.