Actually i'm rather astonished to read a chinese write that such a conflict is likely. I lived in China for one year and have a lot of friends there and i never heard anybody say anything like that. In my experience all the people i talked to had no hostile attitude towards Taiwan or the USA, nor did they think there would ever be a military conflict like this. It was just in 2003 when i was there and due to the Iraq invasion the "anti-american" sentiments were at a peak in Europe at that time and so the contrast compared to China became very obvious and striking to me. It seems as if China might be one of the last places outside the USA where a majority of people still have this romantic and naive picture of the USA as the homeland of the legendary american dream and land of the free and so on. They see the USA as a role model and rather want to send their children there to study instead of making war with it. Even in the official state media i never witnessed any anti american attitude or comments.
Since then this agressive anti chinese "it's only a matter of time till we are at war with them"-attitude that seems to be all over the USA, seems very ridiculous and primitive to me, i must say.
I think the chinese know very well that they are "winning the peace" and so are not interested in war at all.
With all the rapid economical and even political progress China is making, i think it might even be that the taiwanese choose to re-join China freely one day, to be part of this success.
After all the "made in Taiwan" sticker isn't as common on products found in western supermarkets and electronic stores anymore as it was 10 years ago. Did you ever notice that?
That either means that Taiwan isn't selling as much stuff to us anymore because (mainland) Chinatook over market shares from them, or it means that taiwanese companies are producing cheaper on the mainland.
That is actually the case, as far as i have learned from TV reports and from what my chinese friends told me. It seems as if the unification is already on it's way from a economical point of view.
Maybe we have to get used to the idea that that might just be typical and the chinese way. I mean that the economy and businessmen do what politicians aren't doing. After all it is the same with China's opening. China isn't the same anymore as it was 20 years ago and that although it's still officially controlled by the same political party that officially still upholds the same old political ideals as in Mao's times. But hughe changes are going on beneath this blanket and i think it will be the same with the relations between China and Taiwan.
It would be wrong to block that out of colonial, hegemonial sentiments by the USA. They should stay there as long as the Taiwanese still wnat their protection (and with "the taiwanese" i mean the people and not some military hunta), but if the day should ever come when a majority of taiwanese should want the reunification, i hope the USA will not oppose it just because it would lose a few military bases.