The sinking of the INS Eilat was the incident I was referring to in the 45 years time frame, the significance being small missiles (well by the time) that could be fired from a new generation of FAC. I think the Indian's did fire a missile from a destroyer, but much of their success was with similar small missile craft.Just on this point they were used by major surface units or the US and Iranian navies against each other in the Gulf during operation praying Mantis. They were used by the Indian's to sink major units of the Pakistani Navy and the Egyptians to sink an Israeli destroyer.
The sinking of the Joshan, was with Standards & Harpoon but probably not the recommended way we would want to approach this situation now. It's also interesting and I don't know the ranges of the engagement but I suspect the to Perry's not having 5" used Standard.