Of course, Britain is always listed as a big headache for the EU, but we certainly aren't the only ones. Infact, given the defence cooperation with France it seems the biggest 'spanner' in the works, at least as far as defence goes in the EU, is likely to be Germany. They tend to want to stray away from conflict and would likely, and quite rightfully so, have a large issue with them being the biggest economic provider to a military that they don't really want. I'm outside the UK at the moment living in Estonia to study the EU and how these small member states work within it and obviously Estonia doesn't have much they can bring to the table, although they are certainly better off than the other baltic states as at least they have the massive cyber security hub going for them. As you say with the 0.01% of GDP though, unfortunately for the bigger states in the EU, including Britain, any future EU military cooperation is going to have to be a lot of give and not much take. At least though Estonia shows the example of the fact that smaller states can contribute in ways outside of manpower and resources by providing services and expertise, which is perhaps a way forward, but it would take a lot of convincing for the bigger states that this is a fair and good idea.No, I understand where you're coming from. But as you go on to say, the EU is divided and rudderless. The problem is that the French can't accept that they don't run it anymore and the Germans don't want to pay for it. An EU that accepted a military policy largely run and planned by the UK might get somewhere. But given that would mean many member states actually spending more than 0.01% of GDP on defence it isn't going to happen.
To be honest I think the UK is doing ok all things considering. It still punches way above its weight and is a top-tier power (the US aside, as it's in its own class). Complaints that things are otherwise are down to harking after the "glory" days of ruling a large chunk of the world and shooting brown or black people that wanted independence.
In my opinion, at least, the biggest shame for the future of Britain and the EU was the decision to join the JSF program. It would have been nice to have seen another EU developed project like the Eurofighter to promote further intergration, but it's nice to see that we've managed to sign cooperation with the French at least, which is a big step in the right direction. I suppose the solution to a divided and rudderless EU would be to build a european defence community outside of the EU with the possability to intergrate it later, or not if it's not necessary. That way it totally avoids issues that the EU has right now that it might solve later, but allows us to start intergrating now rather than later.
Either way, I certainly agree with that last statement. That's the biggest problem for Britain in almost all aspects, that people need to accept that we're not the country we were any more. We can, and do, still punch well above our weight, and being outside the UK and interacting with a lot of 'international types', one thing I've learned is that there is an extremely high level of respect for the British military in Europe (to the point where I've been told by scholars on the subject that there can never be an EU military without big British cooperation), so we are still a force to be reconed with, but unfortunately we can't do that alone on the global stage any more. Then we have to choose whether we persue a future with America or Europe, and I've always felt that it would be a better future working with your neighbour that it would be with your long-distance friend, even if you get along better with the latter. That said, with America's eyes turning to Asia it might be that we don't share as many interests as we used to, and that would leave us only with Europe where the relationship is much more mutual as opposed to the fairly one-sided relationship with the US.