I think your right, I am very surprised how fast their fleet has contracted. Also a AWD would be a lot more than NZ needs or wants or probably could operate. But since you mention them 6 Holland class and 2 Absalons would be ideal for the RNZN.A lot? But they and the last two M-class are the entire front-line fleet! Those four ships have taken over the combat role of eight older ships.
I reckon the Dutch would be far more likely to keep their shiny new DZPs & sell off van Amstel & van Speijk, if they want to save operating costs. They give far less bang per euro on operating costs than the DZP, & for anything short of all-out warfighting, the new Holland class will be able to do it cheaper.
I don't know what sums you get for 2nd hand ships, but I bet they would only get c£20m for a M Class whereas a DZP prehaps £200m? As soon as the Holland class are finished there will be pressure to build more ships?