To be honest its only the Democracies I bother talking about, Russian and Chinese people dont really have the power to infulence or change there goverments. Although your right there actions are even more immmoral that ours.Even tho you left out the worst offenders you are sadly right. The weapons sales to the developing world are a huge moral black spot. In the USA it was Bill Clinton who really propelled America into a huge arms merchant to the 3'rd world, a fact most Liberals here seem to have a hard time remembering. But by far it is Russia who leads in selling arms to the developing world, 2nd is France, and right behind them is America.
I would dispute that, we talk about weapon systems alot, potential wars yeah, and sometimes even old wars but real current wars very rerely. Iraq, Afganistan, The Congo, Somalia, Sri Lanka, Chechneya, may have a thread here and there, but they are never discussed with the same level of detail devoted to say the bomb load of a navalised version of an F-35, or a hypotethical invasion of Tiawan.If your talking about this forum then maybe youv been opening the wrong posts all the time. We talk about "real war" all the time, and when we dont then were usually talking about systems. The selling of weapons isn't all that repeated a topic.
Counter Insurgency/low tech/gurillia warfare, is the most common and deadly war situation in the world today, and as far as I can see it is under discussed on defencetalk, which IMO is a crying shame.