So as far as the original question goes general concensus looks like torps vs missiles when they actually hit you, your ship might live thru a missile hit where as a torpedo hit will probably send you to the bottem, on to the probability of a hit is where it looks like this is going now, else why are nations with smaller naval budgets investing in subs and smaller missile carrying ships.
need also to look at size of target. maybe someday pictures and data will be released about the USS America carrier sinking. it was hit with missles, bombs, and torpedoes for over 2 days. they had to use scuttling charges to sink her.
new carriers are built to defeat a missle hit in all areas except the island. a double
reinforced hull with a 2 foot thick layer of plastic foam in between offer greater protection against any kind of torpedo.
smaller ships don't stand a chance against either. google MK48 torpedo and see the frigate split in two. ask the Libyan navy about the missle boat A6s from the USS America hit with 2 harpoons. watching the BDA footage you see impact one, then impact two, then when the smoke has cleared nothing but water, not even an oil slick.