try telling that to the luddites
Let me quote a fabulously well adapted piece from F.16.net
"Five Stages of Procurement Reality Grief
1. Denial and Isolation
The reaction when first confronted with a new and better way to make war that one does not fully understand and thus turns one’s worldview upsidedown is to deny the reality of the situation. It is a normal reaction to rationalize when overwhelming emotions come forth. It is a defense mechanism that buffers the immediate shock. One ‘blocks’ out the word that cause such feelings--and so one then hides from the facts. This is a temporary response that carries a mature person only through the first wave of pain.
2. Anger
As the masking effects of denial and isolation begin to wear, the new reality and its pain emerge again if one is not ready. The intense emotion is deflected from one’s vulnerable core. Then it is redirected and expressed instead as ‘anger’. The anger may be aimed at inanimate objects such as the new weapon systmem, complete strangers on message boards, friends or even family or pets. Anger may even be directed at the past ‘management’ of the dying and obsolete weapon systems. Rationally, one may know the people working on the obsolete weapon systems are not to be blamed, and equally rationally one may even realize they do not understand or grasp the dynamics that make the new weapon system an imperative. Emotionally, however, one may resent the retirement of the old weapon system for causing pain or for leaving. One feels guilty for being angry, and this makes one even angrier.
The military planners who identified the deficiencies in legacy systems and found that no amount of modification of the existing systems would suffice to correct those deficiencies to make them worth pursuing instead of pursuing new systems and strategies might become a convenient target. Defense planners and acquisition officials deal with the weapon system life cycle every day and understand. Fortunately that also makes them immune to the manipulation and faux angst of fan boys or others who grieve for the obsolete weapon systems.
3. Bargaining
The normal reaction to feelings of helplessness and vulnerability is often a need to regain control–
• If only we had stopped the buying of this new system sooner…
• If only we had a different set of acquisition officials and contractors…
• If only we had done a better job of defending our pet weapon system…
Secretly, one may make a wish for Divine Providence in an attempt to postpone the inevitable. This is a weaker line of defense to protect one from the painful reality.
4. Depression
Two types of depression are associated with mourning over the departing reality and its weapon systems and strategies in decline. The first one is a reaction to practical implications relating to the loss. Sadness and regret dominate this type of depression. One worries about the personal ramifications. This phase may be eased by simple clarification and reassurance that change is the only ‘true constant’. One may need a bit of helpful cooperation and a few kind words. The second type of depression is more subtle and, in a sense, perhaps more private. It is one’s quiet preparation to separate and to bid our loved one farewell. Sometimes all one really needs is to troll a serious discussion board for a reality check.
5. Acceptance
Reaching this stage of mourning is a gift not afforded to everyone. Usually it is denied to low-information bystanders, the innumerate, and other casual observers who are vulnerable: easily manipulated by ne’er-do-wells via fallacious argumentation. Those people may never see beyond anger or denial. It is not necessarily a mark of bravery to resist the inevitable and to deny oneself the opportunity to make one’s peace. This phase is marked by withdrawal and calm. This is not a period of happiness and must be distinguished from depression.
Coping with change is ultimately a deeply personal and singular experience — no one can help another go through it more easily or understand all the emotions that one goes through. But others can be there for the afflicted and help comfort them through this process. The best thing one can do is to allow oneself to feel the grief as reality comes over them. Resisting it only will prolong the natural, painful process of accepting reality."