I've accompanied my wife to an International Symposium in Kuala Lumpur recently. In the opening speech, the host (a Norwegian) adressed my wife by her father's name, Mrs. Abdullah. This cause a little commotion as the host were using feminine honorific to address a male name. What many people all over the world doesn't know is, in Malaysian malay society, there's no family names. Children are named before their father's name not before their family's name. So please be advice.