The ability to maintain those features are impracticle today with the low cost of maintenance on the F-22. While the F-117 is stealthier than the Raptor the question became at what price. The F-22 can do the same job plus superiority fighter while the F-117 was relugated to a small payload of JDAMs that could only be delivered at night. It isn't exactly an all weather bomber if it can't operate with the sun out.
The reports of Serbs being able to detect it are false, they had intelligence, trajectory calculations and multiple shots for a lucky hit. That and the fact command didn't have the common sense to alter the flight plan from the last bombing run. If they had really figured out how to shoot them down the info would be common knowledge among all radar operators world wide and more would have been shot down since then.
I agree with you on the reasons why the F-117A is being withdrawn from service, too difficult to maintain, too small a bomb load and too many operational limitations (day only, huge fuel burn etc).
As to the loss of the aircraft in Serbia; the problem is that many people mistake stealth for “invisible to radar”. Having a low RCS is only part of the equation. Having appropriate intelligence enables flights to be planned to avoid threats. This means knowing the location of threats and capabilities, and knowing your own RCS enables a bubble to be drawn around each threat. The F-117A can then fly radials between each threat. If the opposition know in advance your flight path and can put new threats into position, blocking the gaps, then the F-117A just runs into the wall. If enough weapons are fired then the target can be hit.
The loss of the aircraft was not a failure of LO (reduced RCS), but rather failings of security (human weakness), intelligence (did not detect change in location of enemy assets) and mission planning (flying the same route, over and over again, again human factors at play).
Today the F-117A can still offer the reduced LO contribution to stealth operations and be effective, the problem is that the price is too high, other platforms, at present B-2 & F-F/A22 and in the future F-35, can do it better.
BTW Congratulations on your promotion, in only 9 years that is impressive!
I left the RAF in 1981 as Sqn Ldr (equivalent to LCDR) in the Engineering Branch (my vision was not goon enough for aircrew, although I have now over 5,000hrs in trials work and similar as P1 GA & gliders. I am currently teaching folk to fly, good fun). Whilst in the RAF I did an exchange tour with the USAF and have worked with USM officers on exchange and with USN when engaged in A2A missile trials. After leaving the RAF I became involved in the development of radar systems and ECM, RF, IR and Laser.
Thanks for your thoughtful input
Chris